Parenting Modesty

Parents need to be careful about forcing a style of clothing on their children, especially when they become teens. If we are constantly fighting the clothing battle, we need to prayerfully seek the core issues in our children’s heart instead of enforcing a code. Few children that are forced to wear clothing will ultimately rebel [...]

Modesty and Romance

On a la Modest, I talked about Lolita fashion and its roots from the Victorian age. Even taking bustiers into account, you have to admit that fashion back then was much more modest than today. A friend of mine likes to view dressing modestly as a way to feel like royalty–a princess finely dressed. Centuries [...]

Bride and Groom Kiss

  Dani si Andreea 3 Originally uploaded by STUDIO SFARA Is This Modest? MInTheGap: There’s nothing more beautiful than a bride and a groom on their wedding day sharing a passionate kiss! Of course, guys are rarely immodest in most photos (unless blatantly so) and this bride’s dress is modest in that it is not [...]

The Wedding and After

After a man marries a woman, he no longer struggles with immodesty.  He delights in his wife, and can see all he needs to at any time.  She fulfils his every desire and need, and he needs no other. I wish, very hard, to say this was true, but it is not, and this is [...]

They Just Can’t Be Understood

As boys and girls become teens and then young ladies and men, there are subtle changes in the way they react to each other.  The physical attraction is still there, and the pressure is still very real, but the relationships that a person goes through and their life experiences can help discipline them or cause [...]