Modesty and Romance

On a la Modest, I talked about Lolita fashion and its roots from the Victorian age. Even taking bustiers into account, you have to admit that fashion back then was much more modest than today. A friend of mine likes to view dressing modestly as a way to feel like royalty–a princess finely dressed. Centuries [...]

Modesty Before The Wedding

The truth is that many of us want to be loved.  We want someone to notice us, to care for us, and as we get closer to the person we love we may feel more free to be more “real” with them. This may mean that we feel that we can let our guard down, [...]

The Wedding and After

After a man marries a woman, he no longer struggles with immodesty.  He delights in his wife, and can see all he needs to at any time.  She fulfils his every desire and need, and he needs no other. I wish, very hard, to say this was true, but it is not, and this is [...]

They Just Can’t Be Understood

As boys and girls become teens and then young ladies and men, there are subtle changes in the way they react to each other.  The physical attraction is still there, and the pressure is still very real, but the relationships that a person goes through and their life experiences can help discipline them or cause [...]

Modest Marriage

Weddings are a strange time.  Not only is it a lot of work for one day, the most money you’ll probably spend on yourself for one event, and a moment that will change your life, but it’s also a time when most people shift away from the normal and glimpse another world—as it were. Weddings [...]