They Just Can’t Be Understood

As boys and girls become teens and then young ladies and men, there are subtle changes in the way they react to each other.  The physical attraction is still there, and the pressure is still very real, but the relationships that a person goes through and their life experiences can help discipline them or cause [...]

Girls Have Curves

I bet that surprised some of you.
Physical changes occur in both boys and girls—I believe girls start to change first—and it is about this time that boys will start to recognize that girls are different and they will react differently to that realization.
It’s also at this time that a boy will start to notice the [...]

The Competition

At some stage of development—there’s no hard and fast rule—girls and boys begin to realize that there are, indeed, differences between them.  Boys want to play athletic activities and video games.  Girls play house and with dolls.  Battle lines are drawn, and at summer camps everywhere one sex starts to tease or mock the other [...]

How Do You Do It?

One of the things that makes Is This Modest? different from any other site that I’ve seen on modesty is the fact that we seek to illustrate for you just what is and what is not modest not only with words, but with photographs.
However, this presents specific challenges on multiple levels:

We don’t want to offend [...]

Good Excuse?

The human mind is an interesting thing.  It can be desensitized to things with repeated use.  It can crave more of base pleasure.  It can be disciplined and trained.  It really is a marvel.
With that in mind, some would suggest that with repeated exposure to immodest clothing, the human mind could be trained not to [...]