Do You Love Your Husband?

Of course this shirt only works if you have a husband!  I guess you could wear it thinking of the husband you’ll someday have, but that might be a stretch, and you’ll get a lot of interesting questions. As far as the shirt goes, it’s fine as far as modesty goes, and we all know [...]

Reserved For My Husband

We can get so caught up in what you shouldn’t wear, what shouldn’t be seen and what looks good and what does not that we really miss the point about what makes a thing immodest.  Immodesty isn’t as much showing bits of flesh as it is an inappropriate showing of things meant for someone else, [...]

Modesty and Romance

On a la Modest, I talked about Lolita fashion and its roots from the Victorian age. Even taking bustiers into account, you have to admit that fashion back then was much more modest than today. A friend of mine likes to view dressing modestly as a way to feel like royalty–a princess finely dressed. Centuries [...]

Dressing For Your Husband

Modesty in clothing could be defined as not showing certain things, but it could also be defined as being appropriately dressed for the place that one finds themselves in. For example, modesty in a specific cultural environment might be wearing more clothing than in an different environment. For this series of posts, I’d like to [...]

“My Husband Wants Me To Look Sexy When We’re Out Together.”

Husbands are men, and as such, they are visual creatures. In you, their wife, they see perfection– or at least they should!  You’re beautiful in their eyes, and many husbands have a set of conflicting desires: They love the way you look, and would love to show you off. They don’t want other men to [...]

Between Husband and Wife

There are a few times in life that we are immodest on purpose—and immodest in an appropriate way.  This week I’d like to cover a few of these because there are times where immodest clothes can actually be something very positive. Remember, clothing is inanimate.  It is value neutral, and only becomes inappropriate when worn [...]