Carnival of Modesty for July 2nd 2011

Welcome to the Carnival of Modesty for April 9th 2011: Dress Code – It is so inconsiderate and selfish to flaunt ourselves with the attitude of “You are responsible for where you put your eyes, don’t you dare look at me, even though I am dressed like a loose woman.” Or will we let our [...]

Directing His Eyes

Big necklaces.  Low necklines.  Bright Lipstick.  Short Skirts.  Why do women wear these things and dress this way?  It’s all about directing the eyes. Sure, she might not be consciously thinking about where a man’s eyes might look on her body, but as the woman checks out different features of her body to see how [...]

And You Wanted Me To Look You in the Eye?

Ask some women what their number one complaint is, and they will reply that men have a hard time maintaining eye contact. The truth of the matter, though, is that it’s hard to go to most places—even professional places—without being “treated” to an eye-full. The worst of the offenders, in my book, is the bank. [...]