Think about what you're saying:

T- Is it thoughtful

H- Is it helpful

I- Is it inspirational

N- Is it necessary

K- Is it kind

- From 40 Days of Love study that my church is currently doing, based on the book The Relationship Principles of Jesus by Tom Holladay who is an associate pastor at Rick Warren's church.

It made enough sense to me, Foy.  :)

I'd like to say something though- I struggle with being judgemental. I see some of these girls in my school with their short-shorts, miniskirts, low-cut tops, and/or v-necks, and it makes me angry. I think "you're making my boyfriend struggle because you're showing so much skin! don't you know guys are picturing you in ways you probably don't want them to? you're giving them little pieces of you!"  It also makes me mad because the school isn't enforcing the dress code.

When I catch myself being judgemental and angry, I ask God to help me, and He does, but it's a major struggle for me.

That's what I'm trying to do.

It's really more frustration that they don't understand (or maybe they do and just ignore it) why wearing modest clothing is so important, rather than hating the actual person. It's their clothes I hate but I tend to project it onto them too. I am trying to change and God is helping me.