Male Modesty

I never hear about male modesty. Do You? Speaking to my beautiful spiritual mother this week by phone, she asked me about a Bible Study she sent to me on modesty. In our discussion of the topic she said, “Males need to be modest also.” Her statement caused my brain to freeze. I was like, [...]

Why Is It Not Good for Men to Be Alone?

I believe that when it comes to lust, one of the hardest times to be a man is summer when the man is single.  It is at this point in time when the man’s body is producing hormones and everything that even hints of private things can turn into something that attracts his focus. I [...]

Fun With Layering

One of the neat things about layering is that it provides modesty when in public, but can easily be modified when in private.  Layering is at the heart of our first couple of installments, for what’s more layered than underwear or sweatshirts? So, while we’re discussing layering, take a look at some of our recent [...]

Do This One Thing, And You’ll Have His Attention!

Last time we talked about the power of your underwear—how just mentioning what you are or are not wearing under your clothing can effect your husband; however, that’s not the most powerful thing that you can do to get his attention. Check out this quirky bit of information from the modesty survey: Seeing a girl [...]

The Power of Surprise

Tupperware.  That was the joke around the time that my wife and I were planning on getting married. There was a story going around that at one bridal shower the lingerie was codenamed “Tupperware” to keep it for a surprise. The one time that everyone expects that a woman will buy something frilly to wear [...]

Every Man’s Responsibility

With all of the sites out there telling women how to be attractive to the opposite sex, this site is different in that it tells women how to dress in a way that shows beauty and grace instead of raw attraction. With that focus, it’s easiest to set up our example of a man as [...]

Maintenance Issues

When I speak about Maintenance Issues in terms of clothing, I’m not talking about washing, drying and hemming clothes.  I’m talking about what needs to be done in order to maintain modesty while wearing different articles of clothing. I was first exposed to this issue at Csehy Summer School of Music where I was counselor [...]

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