02 Jul

June NCA Contest Winner!

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I’m happy to announce that the winner of our June NCA Giveaway is…

Lisa S

Congratulations!

You will be receiving an e-mail from me as well as NCA and they will get all the details—like what skirt you’d like, where to send it, etc.

July’s giveaway is just around the corner, so stay tuned!

02 Jul

Do Layers Actually Make it Modest?


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Originally uploaded by kellyrphotography

One of the things that we have seen in our Quick Reviews is that many women will layer a shirt under another shirt to make the outer shirt modest.  We’ve had some discussion back and forth about whether this actually helps modesty, or hurts it.

In the Quick Review of this image, we all agreed that the white under-layer of this image turned an outfit that was pretty modest into something that draws all the attention to the bust.  While nothing is shown, there’s no question where the eye will go.

The question is, does the fact that the item attracts the attention to the bust make the outfit immodest?

Turns out we’re not the only ones asking this question.

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01 Jul

Feminine Modesty

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Modesty is not just about making sure we have our body covered correctly. It’s about making sure that we look like a lady (for those of us who are ladies, obviously). That doesn’t mean Victorian dresses with ruffles and bustles (oh please no!). It does mean dressing in a way that makes sure we will not be mistaken for a man. I’ve heard the quote “Your clothes should be tight enough to show you’re a woman and loose enough to show you are a lady”. You want those you come in contact with to realize you are a lady; not a chimney sweep, a man or a prostitute. You want men to look at you and admire you; not look at parts of you because you are dressed in a sexy and revealing way.

Feminine modesty does not mean you always have to wear pink and be in a dress. But you should look for clothes that flatter your coloring and shape, but still keep you covered enough that you have some mysteriousness.

30 Jun

Slaves to Attention

Miss England Finalist Katy Baxter

Behind this dress is an interesting story.

It was a stunning dress back in 1966. And in 2009, it’s still a winner.

The silver frock first worn by Katy Baxter’s granny has helped the teenager through to the finals of Miss England.

Katy, 18, had to wear something ‘recycled’ for her semi-final against 57 other girls a fortnight ago.

She said: ‘You could wear an old dress or make up something yourself from old crisp packets, as one girl did.

‘My mother had just had Gran’s old dress dry-cleaned two weeks earlier and she suggested that I tried it on. It fitted perfectly and I absolutely loved it.’  [Daily Mail – Teen sails into Miss England wearing the same dress her grandma was modelling in 1966]

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29 Jun

HydroChic Beach Bag Giveaway!

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HydroChic, a maker of modest swimwear, is having a Super Summer Giveaway to celebrated July 4th!

Any order from them of $100 or more will receive a FREE Beach Bag, as pictured at right.

The Beach Bag is made of PVC—the heavy duty material—and it is perfect for carrying keys, money or reading materials because it seals tight to keep the water out.

If you’re looking for a modest swimsuit alternative, this is definitely an opportunity to check out a great company and receive a free gift with your purchase!

24 Jun

Anyone Want a Free Skirt from New Creation Apparel?

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It’s that time again.  Time for another skirt giveaway!  And you don’t have much time!

That’s right, this is the June giveaway, and you have until the end of June to enter.  That’s right, we’ll be announcing the winner July 1!

How to enter:

  • Leave a comment below (1 point).
  • Tweet about this post on twitter! (make sure to let us know your Twitter ID) (1 point).
  • Comment on any June blog post on this site (2 points). (Make sure to include in the comment “JuneNCA”.  Comment must be on topic of the current comment, and must consist of more than three sentences in order to qualify.)
  • Write a post on your blog linking to IsThisModest.com as well as this individual post (5 points).

Contest ends June 30 at 11:59 am EST.

23 Jun

Diviine Modestee Special

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This week, Diviine Modestee is offering a special on their orange/black Sadie dress! Orginally $59, it is now being offered for $35 for just this week! With  elbow-length sleeves, a knee-covering skirt and nice neckline, this could be the perfect modest dress for your next special occasion!

To take advantage of this deal, enter diviinedeal16 at checkout!